Questioning the Labels We Give Ourselves
by Maria Bello
Dey Streeet Books
Trade Paperback
From the publisher's website:
The acclaimed actress and dedicated activist shares her personal
journey of discovery, and destroys outdated ideas about partnership,
love and family that will resonate with anyone in an unconventional life
situation.
Actress and activist Maria Bello made waves with her essay, “Coming Out as a Modern Family,” in the New York Times
popular “Modern Love” column, in which she recalled telling her son
that she had fallen in love with her best friend, a woman—and her relief
at his easy and immediate acceptance with the phrase “Whatever Mom,
love is love.” She made a compelling argument about the fluidity of
partnerships, and how families today come in a myriad of designs.
In
her first book, Bello broadens her insights as she examines the idea of
partnership in every woman’s life, and her own. She examines the myths
that so many of us believe about partnership—that the partnership begins
when the sex begins, that partnerships are static, that you have to
love yourself before you can be loved, and turns them on their heads.
Bello explores how many different relationships—romantic, platonic,
spiritual, familial, educational—helped define her life. She encourages
women to realize that the only labels we have are the ones we put on
ourselves, and the best, happiest partnerships are the ones that make
your life better, even if they don’t fit the mold of “typical.”
Throughout
this powerful and engaging read, Bello shares intimate stories and
lessons on how she has come to discover her happiest self, accept who
she is, and live honestly and freely, and tells the stories of those who
came to her after her Times’ columns, grateful that someone gave voice to their life choices.
Whatever...Love Is Love is
not a memoir about an actress. It is a frank, raw, and honest book
about the way every woman questions the roles she plays in love, work,
and life, filled with wisdom, questions, and insights relevant to us
all.
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